HOW TO MAKE PASTILLAS!

Here are the ingredients you will need:

1 can condensed milk(300 ml)

2 cups of powdered milk

Sugar

Japanese paper

Steps in making the Pastillas:

1.) Sift  over the powdered milk with a strainer.

2.) Combine the condensed milk with the sifted powder milk.

3.) Mix and blend evenly, using spoon, then, press with hand

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4. )Heat in low heat stirring thoroughly until mixture forms into a paste.

5.) Set aside for 5-10 minutes before shaping into small balls.

6.)Set aside for 5-10 minutes before shaping into small balls.

7.)Dust tray or cutting board with confectioners sugar or white sugar.

8.)Take about a tablespoon of milk mixture and form into a cylinder and roll in confectioners sugar or white sugar. Size of milk candy depends on what size you prefer

9.) Wrap with the japanese papers

10.) Enjoy your Pastillas! :)

Fairness

One of the major causes of conflict is that two people think things are not fair. By fair, we can also include the ideas of just, equal, good, ethical or moral, and the mechanisms of how we achieve this state. I am reminded of the following problem. You have two children, and a delicious ice cream cake sits before them. The task is, how to divide it, so that there isn't a fight over who gets the larger half.
A most remarkable solution comes from Game Theory. The optimum strategy: let one child cut the cake, while the other chooses which piece to take! Thus, in order not to get cheated, the cutter is motivated to divide the cake into two halves that are as nearly equal as possible. Greed insures fair division. Each child anticipates what the other will do, (the cutter anticipates the chooser will take the larger piece) and this is what makes it such an interesting game. The children do not have to even think about generosity or what is fair, just self-interest, and the outcome is fair! And if the children cannot decide who is going to cut, well then, it will just melt away!

Empathy

An empathy statement serves to clarify and to reinforce the feelings that the other person is feeling. In rephrasing what the other person is saying, one is clarifying what you hear is correct. A typical empathy statement contains 2 parts - one part that labels the feeling, and a second part that lets the person know that you understand why he's feeling that way.

There are examples:

• "I'm so sorry for that inconvenience. Let me see what I can do for you today."

• "I'm so sorry that this happened and I will do my best to fix this situation"

• "I'm sorry to hear that. I'll definitely be able to help you with that today."

• "I'm so sorry that happened to you."

• "I'm sorry to hear that. I can imagine that must be frustrating."

• "I can understand that must make you feel upset and we will work toward fixing this situation for you."

• "I definitely know that could be frustrating. I can understand how you feel."

• "That's Terrible!"

• "I can understand the times are very difficult, let's see what we can do for you today."

• "You must be feeling pretty frustrated….

Forgiveness

People across the globe, from all cultures and traditions, embrace love and forgiveness in daily life. These values are universally viewed as central to the fabric of humanity. Yet, the emerging global community has few institutions dedicated to deepening the understanding and spreading the application of these values. In this context, the Fetzer Institute pursues a unique role—working to investigate, activate, and celebrate the power of love and forgiveness as a practical force for good in today’s world.

"If we really want to love we must learn how to forgive."

What is Love

What is love? It is one of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love. To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.   Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.  The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But love is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. 

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.   Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect. 

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

My Idol / My Hero

When i was 3yrs old , i was diagnosed as a bilatual profound hearing ears and my praents feet so sad..
But when they heard about cochlear implant in the philippines , they decided me to undergo the operation even though my dad through of financial struggle still he continuous to do some hard work to give me a brighter future. i know my dad is emotionally , physically and spiritually struggle until now that still he showed me that he can do everthing just to change my future as he wanted me to be....that why i love him so much , My Dad is my strenght , my idol and my hero.

Pet Peeves

1. Malicious Thinker
    People think that i don't care on what is happening around me because of mine hearing difficiency.     However, other people knows who i am.

2.Putting others down

those elitist who criticizes person in their back, because of jealousy, they don't want somebody to be higher to them. I don't care if u're famous or not, have money, etc. but talking in the back, spreaking rumors about that person I wanna kill them all. They think that they are right.

3.Not Washing Hands After Using the Restroom

this is extrememly disgusting! I know someone who has the nerve to use the bathroom and not wash her hands, then continues on to the kitchen to eat, touch other people, and touch objects in the house (such as doorknobs, the refrigerator, ect). I wash my hands EVERY TIME I use the bathroom!

this annoys me but screamin ass children make me mad as well